When the child fall

The fall is one of the biggest fears of the mother who is the parent for the first time. You may have noticed how women with children in the park for example are divided into two types.

Those who are into panic and begin to calm down the child when it falls and others who look somewhat more relaxed and say only: “Nothing has happened.” Or “Come on, get up!”. The second option would look sadistic in the eyes of the woman with the first child. This is because a large number of parents with a second child re-think their reaction during a harmless fall. That’s because they realized that crying and panic scares the child even more.  The explanation of all this is very simple. When a child fall during game, he expects to see your reaction. In most cases, when they cry, they do it because they see panic in the eyes of the parent. The best response to harmless injury is to stay calm. No matter how difficult is this for you, when you are a parent for the first time. At this point, it is more than certain that you want to cry too. But just be calm if you want the child also not to get stressed.

Of course, this does not apply to a cases where the child was more seriously injured. In that situation ,you will instinctively seek help. Just try to distinguish the harmless injury and do not keep the child from everything at the playground. Whatever small to be the child, the lesson to stand up alone , will be useful for life ahead.